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I Can’t Believe I’m Buying This Book: A Commonsense Guide to Successful Internet Dating

It’s official: There is no longer a stigma associated with Internet dating. It’s true. We promise. Nearly 50 million Americans have tried it. That means roughly half of the single adult population has filled out an online dating profile or has at least browsed a few personal ads, just to see who’s out there. Quickly disappearing are the days of awkward setups and random encounters. Today’s singles simply post a profile on a handful of dating websites, then sit back and wait for the dates to roll in. Well, that’s the idea anyway. The reality is that most people slap together vague and uninspired dating profiles and quickly become disillusioned when “the one” doesn’t respond the next day. In I CAN’T BELIEVE I’M BUYING THIS BOOK, Internet dating expert Evan Marc Katz—a former MatchNet consultant and avowed online dater—demystifies the world of Internet dating. He offers practical advice on choosing the right dating website, writing eye-catching profiles, striking up that first email “conversation,” turning a first date into a second, and much more. Equal parts how-to guide and inspirational pep talk, I CAN’T BELIEVE I’M BUYING THIS BOOK is like having a chat with a good friend, in this case, a hysterically funny, insightful friend who tells it like it is while remaining cheerfully optimistic about the universal quest for love. Whether you’re an online dating junkie or a complete newcomer, an enthusiastic twentysomething or a been-there-done-that divorcée, this irreverent and intelligent guide will teach even the most jaded single

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Online Dating for Dummies

Chances are, you’ve heard about Internet dating from a friend, or an online banner ad has caught your eye. If you’ve given online dating a passing consideration, you may have some fears from all those graphic horror stories that jar your senses – and your sensibilities. Or you may think that meeting people via the Internet is only for the disenfranchised or socially unskilled. From their own experiences, 20 million people can tell you otherwise. Online Dating For Dummies will get you off the fence and on the Internet dating path – with the skill of a seasoned pro. Like your best friend, this fun reference will give you the straight scoop on Gearing up with the right computer hardware Overcoming preconceived notions of who is online Talking the online lingo Enjoying conversation in chat rooms Considering date site options Establishing your screen identity Facing the consequences of not posting a photo Internet dating is growing at double-digit rates every year, while other forms of finding a connection are flat or falling off. Internet dating, although far from perfect, is becoming the most effective and efficient method of getting introduced to a large number of available singles. Online Dating For Dummies shows you how to get your feet wet and how to dive in, making informed choices and exercising good judgment as you Sign up for a trial run on a dating

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Fine, I’ll Go Online!: The Hollywood Publicist’s Guide to Successful Internet Dating

Visit www.fineillgoonline.com It only takes one, but finding one you click with can be tough.  These days, more and more women are deciding to go online to find love.  In this fun yet informative guide, top Hollywood publicist Leslie Oren will give you the tricks of her trade – marketing and creating an image – to help you navigate today’s tangled dating Web to find a match who’s waiting for you.Just like she has done for her clients in Hollywood, Leslie will teach you how to successfully  craft your image to create the best possible version of your authentic self for Internet dating, including: *How to write the perfect online profile*Why you must post a photo*What not to write in an email*Why the first date should only be meeting for coffee or a drink*Why a second date means online dating success And many more tips to make you shine like a star!Rating: (out of 3 reviews)

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Romancing The Web: A Therapist’s Guide To The Finer Points Of Online Dating

Online dating is the most efficient and effective way to meet the right partner today! Singles’bars have always been dreadful places to meet and, in our increasingly mobile society, family and friends are not always sufficiently close or available to provide potential partners as they may have been in the past. Online dating works! But the process, from logging on to walking down the aisle is fraught with danger and confusion if you don’t understand how it works. Romancing the Web, the only online dating book written by a relationship therapist, is a complete reference to the finer points of this process and your ticket to success in this endeavor. Written in an eminently readable style, by a therapist with more than 12 years’ experience working with singles and couples in the field, Romancing the Web is filled with real-life examples, such as the following, that help to illustrate both the problems and solutions that singles can find in their quest for companionship in cyberspace. “‘Well, let’s see,’ Cindy begins in response to my question about her recent social engagements. ‘Last Saturday I went to an Art Fair with Jake. We really had a good time. We spent the whole day there. Then on Sunday, Tom took me out to dinner at a really nice restaurant. I’ve been seeing him almost once a week now. On Wednesday Jeff and I went for a bike ride after work. That was fun, too. You remember him, right? The builder I told you about? And tomorrow night, Steve is taking me to a movie.’ Before she discovered online dating, Cindy, a very attractive woman in her earlyRating: (out of 11 reviews)

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Romancing The Web: A Therapist’s Guide To The Finer Points Of Online Dating Reviews

Review by smitten kitten:
I disagree with the review below, the book may have been a little repetive but I could understand what the author was saying. However, with the other books I have tried to use I ended up so confused and frustrated that I just gave up. This book really helped me get the right image of myself onto the internet and gave me helpful tips about choosing a mate that I would never have thought of myself.

I live in a very small town in Iowa and all the men in my town are married or not an option. Dating was out of the question with my two young children so the internet was my only option. Romancing the Web really helped me to feel comfortable with the internet and online dating sites. I am currently in a relationship and I have found that in my past relationships I had moved too fast, Berry’s suggestion to only e-mail for a month helped me to really get to know Dave and now we have started talking on the phone.

I highly recommend this book for anyone who has been frustrated by the internet or needs a little relationship nudge, it really helped me.

Review by A Relationship Therapist:
I am a therapist and work with a significant number of single persons seeking meaningful relationships. I stumbled on Romancing the Web in a local bookstore and was impressed by the information presented and the easy-to-follow approach. Ms. Berry’s guidelines are thoughtful and appropriate and very helpful in establishing a healthy partnership. I have taken to recommending this book for all of my online dating clients!

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The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Online Dating

The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to On line Dating is two books in one! The first book: “How I Did It” is Dale’s story of how she found her Mr. Right on line. It is Dale’s own inspirational journey after her ‘perfect’ 25 year marriage was over (her husband left her for a man) and her joining an online dating service 12 days later. She made her way through thousands of profiles and met hundreds of men (!) until she met her Mr. Right. Flip the book over to reveal Book Two: If I Can Do It, You Can Too! Dale shares how she learned to make the most of online dating and polished her skills and created strategies that really worked. There are tips on everything from the photos, to the profile along with the search, initial contact, response and meeting. Dale offers solid tips on writing that all so important profile–one that works!Rating: (out of 4 reviews)

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Review by Blondie:
If you are dating online or if you are contemplating online dating “The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Online Dating” is a must have/must read. Having read a number of books about how to go about dating via the internet Dale’s book stands out. It is instructive, honest and funny. She relates her story, the mishaps, lessons learned and finally how to go about on line dating with intelligent and easy to follow guidelines. After reading her book I was convinced that Dale Koppel knew what she was talking about. And then I met her at a profile writing workshop and I was absolutely convinced that Dale, in fact, knew what whe was talking about. Not only was she a delight to meet,but everyone left the workshop far more positive and encouraged then when they arrived. Her book tells you what to do….sooo READ IT!

Review by Summer Reading:
I found The Intelligent Woman’s Guide to Online Dating an inspiring story of the author’s personal experience and success with online dating. I found that Dale shares her story candidly, with humor and hope for all in the dating world. She makes helpful suggestions about how to do it yourself, including posting photos that are appropriately attention getting, creating a profile that is interesting and honestly reflects you, and being proactive when searching for a partner. For me, this was truly an inspiring and helpful book!!

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The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace

What the international phenomenon of The Rules did for conventional dating, The Rules for Online Dating does for the search for love on the Internet. You’ll never hit the “reply” button the same way again. Millions of women around the world are meeting men on the Internet, or they’ve met in person and are corresponding by e-mail. But though e-mail and Net-based dating services have revolutionized the dating landscape, they’ve created their own pitfalls and challenges. Women need new strategies that will improve their chances of capturing Mr. Right. Boasting the same time-tested formula and romantic spirit that made The Rules an international bestseller and launched thousands of women down the path to committed relationships, The Rules for Online Dating shows all women — regardless of age, status, or computer savvy — how to use electronic communication to relate to men in a way that maintains self-esteem and leads to a healthy relationship. Here is a comprehensive list of dos and don’ts that will help every woman conduct an e-courtship safely and successfully; find and keep the interest of suitable mates; and save time, energy, and potential heartache by weeding out dead wood. The Rules for Online Dating takes women through the process — step by step, Rule by Rule — to the ultimate goal: a relationship based on mutual attraction, interest, and respect.

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The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace Reviews

Review by Stephanie Manley:
By reading other reviews you most likely have an opinion right now if this book is for you or not. Is it old-fashioned? Sexist? Stupid? Playing Games? Honestly, that’s your call. There were several points I liked in this book, I think it has some valid content.

Profiles, the authors state that men basically look at the pretty pictures of the women, and glance at their profiles. Is this true? Men are visual. So pick a nice smiling photo. Don’t write too much. I like this, not because it creates mystery, because your leaving out emotional baggage. Your selling yourself, not the fact your ex cheated on you with your neighbor, wouldn’t commit, or he was mean.

I liked that after 4 emails, and he didn’t give you his phone number, or ask for yours move on. Really, your on a dating website to date. If you are looking for chat buddies, go to a chat room. The author also asks you to wait 24 hours before you respond. There is a lot of pressure to respond right away, do you need to wait a full 24 hours?

There are a lot of tips like this that I think help weed out the real potential canidates. Online dating isn’t for the faint-hearted. It is work finding the right person. I like that this book sets boundaries initially. I haven’t read their other book, but I felt this book does a good job of helping you to sort through people. If you liked ‘He’s just not that into you’, you will like this book as well.

Review by Daisy Duck:
As I’ve learned in graphic design and cooking, you have to learn the rules of the trade before you can break them with confidence (and success). That said, this book provides a great outline of how to find success in online dating, assuming success is defined as achieving a long-term romantic relationship.

For the men who refute the validity of these rules:

You like a woman who is honest. Rules girls are always truthful; how is saying we’re busy when asked for a date on short notice manipulative? Rules girls are always busy because our lives are full, we’re not sitting by the phone waiting to be called for a date.

You like women who return phone calls and e-mails. Rules girls return phone calls and e-mails at the earliest opportunity–we’re busy but well worth the wait–our weekends are always full of fun activities with family and friends, not checking e-mail. If you interpret a longer-that-24-hour delay as disinterest, you don’t have enough initiative to interest us anyway. You also like women who initiate phone calls themselves–perhaps when we know you better, we will, wouldn’t that be a treat?

You like women who answer the questions you ask instead of ignoring them. Anything more personal than, “Just got back from walking the dog…do you like dogs?” deserves to be ignored. The brevity of a Rules girl’s response has nothing to do with our level of education. If you don’t understand a “Hi, sorry for not responding sooner, I’ve been so swamped!” means we’re thinking of you despite our busy schedules, then you’re not our type anyway.

You like women who take initiative. We’re ambitious women who take initiative in all other aspects of our lives–we would like to be in a long-term romantic relationship with a man who is self-confident enough to take the initiative.

You like women to ask you out…well, I prefer to be asked out. If you’re my type of man, you will run the risk of rejection, because you are self-confident and interested in me. If you’re *that* interested in me, you will likely win that first date!

If you aren’t dazzled by me within four e-mails, that’s about a week of completely impersonal communication and you’re just not that interested. I need to move on to brighter prospects.

Equality in a relationship is not based on who pays for a date–who really thinks that anyway? If you ask a Rules girl out, she is your guest and you pay (and, lest we forget, you plan). When I ask you out, I will pay (by that time, though, you’ll have married me, so it may not matter).

The techniques this book recommends would quickly cause you to look elsewhere. That works for us, you’re not Rules girl material! If YOU want a relationship with a Rules girl, you’ll make it happen. If you don’t, you won’t–the Rules girl won’t waste her (or your) precious time trying to force what isn’t there. Not all people fit with each other, and this book helps women with particular expectations understand why they’re not being met by the men they date.

All of that said, I discovered I have been practicing the Rules nearly my entire dating life. It has been when I’ve broken my own personal “rules” that I’ve experienced heart-wrenching break-ups, because the relationships should never have been in the first place. Cheers to all the Rules girls, past, present and future!

The Boomer’s Guide to Online Dating

By Judsen Culbreth A thorough yet lighthearted guide to online dating, designed primarily to help the over-35 woman browse Internet sites-with confidence, ease, and a sense of adventure-and capture that special someone Online dating is a national phenomenon, with some 30 million people logging on to dating sites each month. Yet many women over 35 still hesitate when it comes to browsing for a mate. That’s exactly how author Judsen Culbreth felt when she found herself single again at age 49, after a 20-year marriage. Overcoming her own trepidation, she decided to take the plunge and post an online personals ad. Not only did she get 84 responses within 2 days, but eventually she found romance and a second chance at love and marriage. Now she draws upon her own online adventures and her vast experience in magazine and TV journalism to provide Boomers and mature GenXers with the guide they need to navigate their way through the three stages of cyber-courtship: defining compatibility, creating chemistry, and closing on commitment.Rating: (out of 7 reviews)

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Review by G.K., Ph.D.:
As I experienced it, when finding yourself alone, maybe even for the first time in your life, you can embrace one of two strategies: the passive one…waiting for someone to drop out of the sky into your life, or the active one… figuring out what sort of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with and then searching for him! This book equips you with the skills to master the search process that has the highest probability of success …internet dating.

Don’t let pride (“I’m too good for this”), bitterness (“all men are jerks”), denial (“I’m perfectly content spending the rest of my life alone”) or ego (“I have a Ph.D…I can figure this out on my own”) keep you from taking advantage of the sound wisdom contained in this book. Culbreth, in a style which is both witty and warm, walks you though the fog of fear and self-doubt that we inevitably encounter when faced with the daunting task of finding a mate at this stage of our lives. It may have been a long time since you did any thinking about who you are and what you really want. Culbreth helps you through this. You may have difficulty remembering what men are looking for… Culbreth helps you remember. As women we have been socialized to be self-effacing. Culbreth helps you overcome this tendency in order to construct a personal profile which illuminates the strengths and qualities of your unique being.

I know Culbreth deeply believes there is someone out there for you…and I do, too. So take a deep breath, buy the book, and enjoy your search.

The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online

This romantic tell-all memoir spanning over 250 online dates, is filled with heartfelt, witty, and hilarious stories. Julie Spira, a pioneer in the Internet industry, became the first on her block to post an online dating profile. You’ll follow her journey as she skillfully navigates the web, hoping to replace what she once thought was the love of her life with a new Internet mate. With a designer wardrobe, a mailbox filled with party invitations, and an overloaded Inbox, she continues her cyber-quest to find the “the one.” Combining her fairytale romances and disappointing heartbreaks with her personal rules of “netiquette,” she provides priceless knowledge about the most effective ways to date online. Learn from an Internet industry pro, who received several marriage proposals and a brilliant assortment of fabulous, fun dates after a devastating heartbreak where she had to start her life all over again.

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The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online Reviews

Review by Tamsen Fadal:
This is a must read! As a relationship expert, we love to recommend Julie’s online dating advice to our clients! So, if you are looking for love online? The Perils Of Cyber Dating Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking For Love Online, is just the book you need to take from the city to the beach this summer!

Julie Spira dishes it all as a hopeful romantic looking for love online. From her fabulous Rules of “Netiquette” that map out what men and women say vs. what the actually mean, to one hilarious story after another, she has mastered it all in a few clicks of her keyboard. This tell-all memoir spans over 250 dates in almost 15 years online. Way to go Julie!!!